Safe (BDSM)-play

Safe (BDSM)-play

Keep kinky parties safe

Kinky parties should be fun and so we are trying to find a good way to set boundaries to play-parties without giving yet another serious list of “NO’s” (of course regulations might be different on different locations)

Safe BDSM-play

  • To the People that like to watch…
    • Watch with respect(!) for the players that allow you to watch
    • If you don’t like what you see: no remarks or laughter is in place, you might wanna just move on.
    • Don’t jerk off. If you are asked(!) to do so: respect each others skin: don’t splatter body fluids (do keep you distance please)
    • Inform yourself beforehand and keep it kinky (drama is not sexy)
    • Respect the cleaners: no showers of any other color then clean water
    • The Dungeon Monitor has final word! (don’t argue: let us party!)
  • For the Players
    • Play with Consent (if you shouldn’t drive, you best not play with implements designed to hurt)
    • Play Risk Aware and play with tomorrow in mind (you may want to hurt but no one wants to be maimed)
    • Know your implements and know your surrounding (no sharpies, long whips etc. when it’s crowded)
    • Play safe: Only play with body-fluids as long as your skin is intact!
    • Respect the limits of your play partner (and the ones that are watching -the party atmosphere- please) …the DM has final word
    • Electroplay: know your electrical circuit (no current through the heart -nippleplay alert-)
    • Respect the clothing and health of fellow players and partypeople: do not walk around with sharpies
    • You would like to play clean too (so cleanup afterwards, tissues and disinfectant stuff is at the Dungeon Monitor’s)
    • Did I mention: the Dungeon Monitor has final word? 😉

Rave safe

  • Sex and Drugs and Alcohol (realistic and non-judgemental)
    • Every drugs (including alcohol) has its risks
    • Always have safe sex (even if he/she looks soooo yummy healthy)
    • The First Aid Team is your friend and not there to judge you (please ask Dungeon Monitors and staff if you question a situation)
    • Think for yourself, care about others
    • Don’t drink, use drugs and drive. You would be a risk for yourself and others.
  • Rave Safe:
    • You can push your limits but respect your biology: Be responsible
    • Love your ears: protect them (earplugs are available)
    • Drink enough to not overheat but do not drink to much water when on drugs
    • Be prepared (condoms and clothing for any type of weather and dance)
    • Pace yourself (Rythm): Eat, sleep, rave and take your time to chill

“Keep kinky parties safe” by PraatmetHans.nl, Kinkinfo.nlKinkindeRelatie.nl en KinkAware.info)

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