SafePlayParty.Kinkinfo.nl
“Keep kinky parties safe!”
(by PraatmetHans.nl, Kinkinfo.nl,
KinkindeRelatie.nl en KinkAware.info)
Keep kinky parties safe!
Kinky parties should be fun and so we are trying to find a good way to set boundaries to play-parties without giving yet another serious list of “NO’s” (of course regulations might be different on different locations)
Safe BDSM-play
To the People that like to watch…
- Watch with respect for the players that allow (!) you to watch
- If you don’t like what you see: no remarks or laughter is in place, you might wanna just move on.
- If you are invited(!) to jerk off: respect each other’s skin: don’t splatter body fluids (do keep your distance please)
- Inform yourself beforehand and keep it kinky (drama is not sexy)
- Respect the cleaners: no ‘showers’ of any other colour than clean water
- The Dungeon Monitor can answer questions (and has the final word! (-don’t argue: let’s party!-)
For the Players
- Play with Consent! (if you shouldn’t drive, you maybe should not play with implements designed to hurt a body)
- Play Risk Aware and play with tomorrow in mind (you may want to hurt but no one wants to be maimed) … Yes means Yes!!!
- Know your whips and other impact-implements and know your surrounding (no sharpies, long whips etc. when it’s crowded)
- Safe-play: Only play with body-fluids as long as your skin is intact!
- Respect the limits of your play partner (and the ones that are watching -the party atmosphere- please) …the DM has the final word
- Electroplay: know your electrical circuit (no current through the heart -nipple-play alert-)
- Respect the clothing and health of fellow players and party-people: do not walk around with sharpies
- You would like to play clean too (so clean up afterwards, tissues and disinfectant stuff is at the Dungeon Monitor’s)
- Did I mention that the Dungeon Monitor has the final word? 😉
Safe Sex parties
- Sex and Drugs and Alcohol (be realistic and non-judgemental)
- Every drug (including alcohol) has its risks
- Always have safe sex (even if your partner looks soooo yummy healthy)
- The First Aid Team is your friend and they’re not here to judge you (please ask Dungeon Monitors and staff if you question a situation)
- Think for yourself, care about others
- If you go: Don’t drink, use drugs and drive. Maybe get a cab…
Rave Safe:
- You can push your limits but respect your biology: Be responsible
- Love your ears: protect them (earplugs are available)
- Drink enough to not overheat but do not drink to much water when on drugs
- Be prepared (condoms and clothing for any type of weather and dance)
- Pace yourself (Rythm): Eat, sleep, rave and take your time to chill
zie ook: https://www.rivm.nl/hygienerichtlijnen/seksbedrijven-sekswerkers
“Keep kinky parties safe” by PraatmetHans.nl, Kinkinfo.nl, KinkindeRelatie.nl en KinkAware.info)
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